It's not always easy to keep the smile on your face, but I always try to find those little things that can help brighten my mood instantly.

When I am down I try to find the good out of the situation. I am a firm believer in "everything happens for a reason."  We may not understand that concept fully and many people say that thinking like that is easier said than done especially when life has thrown you a crap hand for so long.

I agree, but I like to think that in every situation there are multi options, we chose whichever route seems best at the time.  It may be the case that that route is actually more of a detour or diversion on the intended route but it will bring you out to the same destination none the less, although it may take a little longer. Kinda like a curve ball. You may need to make a series of decision detours to end up at your desired destination but life is what ever you want it to be. Only you are in charge of your own destiny, so why not spend your time looking for the good and positive things rather than allowing your inner demons to drag you down.

You can and will get though whatever life throws at you.

You are strong, resilient & worth more.

Hey, the situation you just threw my way...yeah that one...it sucks but I refuse to let it beat me down. I will do better.

I leave you with one thing...


In times of darkness you could try and find the light at the end of the tunnel by yourself but if you need a hand to help you through...I am here!

You may not know me but I would love to know you and I may not be able to fix your problems, but I can be an ear to listen or a friend if you need me.

Just drop me a line...

...I never want you to feel like you are alone in this world... so please know that you are not!

Sometimes just talking it through with someone or venting can be a help so rather than dismiss it entirely...why not try it? What have you got to lose from talking about it?


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  1. This is amazing, and something I'll definitely be coming back to have a look at when I need to cheer myself up. Such a fabulous post.

    Sammy xo.


    1. Thank you Sam, that's super kind of you suga.

      Keep in touch Xx

  2. This is such a beautiful post! So many people need more positivity in life, hopefully this post will help someone do just that! :)

    Heather x


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